.you dont GIVE UP you just know how to let go

"Between you and every goal that you wish to achieve, there is a series of obstacles, and the bigger the goal, the bigger the obstacles. Your decision to be, have and do something out of the ordinary entails facing difficulties and challenges that are out of the ordinary as well. Sometimes your greatest asset is simply your ability to stay with it longer than anyone else."

~ Brian Tracy 

The quote above is giving inspiration that our hearts desire, that our mind could comprehend and that our soul wants to animate. Yet, we come to a point that we decide whether something is for us or not. We let go but we consider the probability that there is something great after that choice. On the other hand, some may consider giving up as cowardliness but could they able to gain the insight and to realize the meaning and reasons why we give up? Hence forward, in this kind of world today, giving up may be the last option and last choice to take. Yes, it is really hard to give up but will you consider the fact that you are not intended for that situation, that you are not belong to it or what others called as out-of-place.

Maybe life is critical that it only give you two options, to continue or to stop. But, considering that choices, you value and improve your own you, others and society. First, as you decide you reflect what are the pros and cons of your action. Second, you weigh every choices presented on your face. Third, you asked yourself, what is the effect of this to me, others and sometimes to the society. Lastly, you take actions and that actions is whether you pursue or not. 

I am a accounting student at Ateneo De Naga University; since, I belong to that program I need to maintain and obtain at least 84 percent of my grade in major subjects. Last time, I had encountered so much question that bothered me everyday. I had failed two examinations and it is PROBABLE that I could not able to obtain and reach indeed the required semestral grade. Considering the options in my situation, I need to pick between to retake and continue or to shift on other related courses and stop taking accountancy program. Yet, this perplexities may be harsh but I know to a fact that I need to choose as soon as possible. I may give up, considering our financial situation, scholarship status and future investment. Yet, my heart is on accounting and I know for a certain that I want it and I want to finish it. I weighed it realizing that shifting may be my last choice and suppose to be a risky one. But, right now I am still thinking about it.

Let me continue, giving up might be a cruel decision to some but for others it is just a mere acceptance. I rather consider those who give up as braver as a hero for they could able to accept losses and weird judgment from others that those person who continue to fight even it is not destined to them. Yet, you may ask, what a nuisance writer am I, for I encourage you to fight on my previous blog, but, I also consider the possibility that in some way we might fall but this fall gives us a chance to learn to rise with brave heart and soul. 

You have a hero in you and that is yourself and only you could solve your own problems. Your choice is not the choice of others, it is you who make it. But, in every choice you make there is the shadow of responsibility. The complex the responsibility is, the complex the burden you carry. I am not saying to let go of all those burden in your shoulder but I am saying that you are human, a creation with limitations.Yet, beyond the realm of limitations lies an avenue that will lead a greater you. You are a unique creation that no one else know how you make it in this world. For you are only one and you are one of a kind.

Decide what your heart inspires and what your brain had weighed. Good day everyone.

 

HOPE not the cigarrete dude...

                  “Never let go of hope. One day you will see that it all has finally come together. What you have always wished for has finally come to be. You will look back and laugh at what has passed and you will ask yourself... 'How did I get through all of that?”

                   It is absurd that life was sometimes cruel. Besides, it had presented so much perplexities in our daily living, we come to a point that it is just a matter of acceptance and bizarre recognition. Yet, as we considered it as an uncanny, do we just really accept it without constant affirmations and actions?

                 Indeed, problems and obstacles comes hand-and-hand, but it doesn't mean that there is no solution on that problem. It is just a matter of searching but searching without thinking is an idiotic thing to do. Reflecting, analyzing, scrutinizing while searching is the best way to deal with it. Yet, we are still asking, is there still a chance even if your solution failed? Is there still an assurance that you could uplift yourself in this trouble days?

                     Yes, just remember that sun will shine at the end of cloudy days. Life was very mysterious; yet, its mysteriousness became our key to learn life to the fullest. Hope is part of life and life is part of you, so, it is natural to you to have hope and give hope. You may be in a trouble days, but it is not the end of the world. It is just a part of what we so called strengthening ingredients of ourselves.

                    As an accounting students who failed several in an examination (including myself), as a nursing student who could not able to afford to continue schooling, as a mother with a son on a hospital that is near to death and as a father who thinks for his hungry children, do we really need to say that "God only gives problems to me!". No, why, it is because problems is a shadow of our existence. I could say, if you have no problem, think about it, for it is your problem that you have no problem at all. According to some, a man without challenges is abnormal. Maybe you will not agree about the previous statement but I insist better keep it to yourself for we are subjective animals. Hope you get the idea.

                    Hope may be blurred to you but it is better to be blur than nothing at all. Rise when you fall, run after you walk and stand strong when you think you will let go.